The Graveyard


About miss graves

Welcome to the House of Graves, a place to come, escape and indulge in your deepest fantasies and filthy secrets. I am Mistress Scarlet Graves, a fierce and formidable Dominatrix based in the East Midlands, UK. I am a experienced, creative and ingenious Woman with a skill for executing My sessions with flair and elegance.

My interests and skills are varied and I take great pleasure in My work. Always keeping you on your toes and in the palm of My hand. I love all kinds of play but the things I adore especially are Sissy Training, Transformations, Chastity, Humiliation, anything Rubber/Satin/Nylon, Strap-on/Anal Training and all things PAIN. I do enjoy the total control over My pets, forever toying with them before devouring them like prey.

Please know this though, My needs and My interests are priority, I do not care for pets that answer back or try to top from the bottom. I am here to entertain My own desires and should you fit into that? Well, hooray for you. This is important as I do My best work when I am free to work with the tools I am given and am not dictated on how to go about it. This House is a House of total Feminine Power and you will be required to always respect that. That being said, My house is open to all and is a safe place for those who have itches to scratch, to be free for a moment. My sessions are 100% confidential (unless consent is given to share O/our stories) and I take the safety of My pets very seriously, you are in safe claws. My House is a Safe, Sane and Consensual one.

real time & online sessions

Due to the COVID19 pandemic I will be not booking real time sessions until lockdown has been fully lifted. However, W/we might as well use this time to get to know one another…

Online and Phone sessions are available upon request, you may contact Me to arrange this be it a cam session, texting or chat on the phone. Maybe you have a confession for Mistress? Or you possibly require some guidance on how to be a complete slut? Or maaaaybe, we can mangle your junk for a little while? Email tasks are also available.

And, for you Chastity dogs, I also offer Keyholding packages that include daily contact, tasks and online sessions for a weekly or monthly Tribute.

I pride Myself on My creative and unique style, as much as I love to have you under My foot, I can plot many ways to corrupt and play with you remotely.

See My interests below first and do your research before contacting Me, I will not see you if I feel W/we are not compatible or you cannot make the effort or be respectful when approaching. I will not chase you and get bored easily, so make it good.

Contact Me to book and inquire about My rates via the application form.

Fetishes & interests

The following list details most of My fetishes and what I love to indulge in. There are many, however, if there is a particular fetish I have not mentioned that you wish to inquire about, you may do so when contacting Me.

  • Bondage
  • Chastity/Key Holding
  • CBT/Ball Busting
  • Corporal Punishment
  • CEI
  • Cuckold Fantasy
  • Edging
  • Electrics
  • Face Slapping
  • Feminisation/Cross Dressing
  • Foot/Shoe/Boot Worship
  • Giantess Fantasy
  • Humiliation
  • Mummification
  • Nylon
  • Orgasm Denial/Torture
  • Rubber
  • Satin
  • Sissy Training
  • Slave Training
  • SPH
  • Spitting/Drool
  • Strap on/Anal Play
  • Verbal Humiliation
  • Vore Fantasy
  • Watersports


And here are the things I absolutely will not entertain. I would absolutely require you to respect My limits, as I will yours, and not push My boundaries in any way whatsoever. Anyone doing so will be immediately dismissed.

That’s not to say I am kink shaming anyone who enjoys some of the kinks below (apart from the illegal shit obviously) but for Me I cannot offer a unique experience doing something I simply do not enjoy.

  • Absolutely no illegal activity involving animals, minors, drugs, etc.
  • No intimate, sexual acts such as kissing, sexual intercourse, oral sex given or received.
  • No intimate or naked Body Worship
  • No Age Play
  • No Needle Play
  • No Racial Humiliation

making an appointment with Mistress Graves

When contacting Me, I do require you to have some basic manners. After all, they are free and tell Me all I need to know about you off the bat. Those that make the effort and can appreciate My time will be swiftly dealt with. Those that put absolutely no effort in and prove to be nothing but lazy will find themselves waiting a loooooooong time for a response. I do not give My time to those who cannot respect and appreciate it.

I have gone to the effort to make the contact form here user friendly, it will ask you for all the details I need to know, I do ask you be clear about your fetishes and hard limits, be honest and open and that way I can then prepare properly and do what I do best; melt your tiny mind and consume your very soul.

Those that send tributes with your application will be seen first, always. Automatically front of the queue. Proving you can fully appreciate My time, you will have certainly gained My attention. My tribute methods can be found on the Tributes & Wishlists page.

“i can’t speak highly enough about Mistress Scarlet Graves, She makes me melt into my submission with precision & ease. Being with Her is truly an honor.”


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